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Recognition is weak, but also a way of life: wangshiwangshi


Recognition is weak, but also a survival
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????????????????? Original starting in 2008-09-26?? Popularity: 2962 children in our neighborhood, a few timid my son. Other children his age, has to play down their own,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he still hesitating. His book,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there is a \I looked inspired, they sent him to help me buy salt. Downstairs to let him alone.
encourage and threats, he was smiling said to me: \I heard only a compromise, since not dare to go, waiting for him one day to dare it.
Finally one day, I take him downstairs to play, his drink. I gave him to buy and double the money to buy salt, and asked him to help me to buy salt. Little guy ran quickly to buy what I need.
Since then, he went down alone is not a problem.
conflict and the children downstairs when the son was also very frightened away. My parents always said my son, do not, and that children play. That makes me know there are problems. One, how can a little friction because not go on and do it.
Then once I found a conflict between son and children, took home the hand and said: \
I find more like my son, timid, easy to compromise.
my father had taught me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], failing to be brave, be strong. But me and my brother seemed to belong to the timid. A child at a disadvantage not how to express, and found the conflict to stay away, to see themselves on children Feng Wan far along giggle.
but timid than daring the two of us now have a lot less dangerous playmates. Those children, preoccupied with eating at a disadvantage, and have resolved the conflict have to spend energy, Feng Wan accident, to my age, seems to have drank too much.
So I think, timid, and not necessarily a bad thing. Represents a far from timid and sometimes dangerous to the health attitudes. The compromise also represents a response to.
one, are not always strong. And our children's education, they are all taught him how to be a strong. As me and my brother like this, inherently weak, in front of a large force of more than ability, developed in the muscle battle muscle in front, then it can only bring trouble. I'm glad I learned early compromise, learned avoidance, learned to identify the favorable factors in disadvantaged circumstances.
do recognize the weak, but also a way to survive.
son's kindergarten teacher education in all: \Born equal, but the fight for the rights to explore their potential is equal.
a talent is talent is a lion and a frog's how can equal it. But talent is a must have means toad explore their potential and make a good frog.
\But let only know Jin did not know back, only Zhantiandoudi ho, no contentment in the open-minded, this seemingly positive philosophy, and ultimately tragedy brewing raw, so sadly.
watched a movie, a group of soldiers, one is weak. He failed the test everything, peer influence their classes because of his performance kept him in the night hit him with a belt, instructor humiliated him and let him cry himself is a pig. The nature of the weak, and finally did meet everyone's requirements, but in the psychological completely collapsed.
day deep in the toilet, he opened the toilet with the instructor were killed, and then committed suicide.
When one is weak in a particular area, you should try to find his strength in other areas of the bar. \
from Majiajue beginning, more than has occurred within the campus of similar cases, those who are humble thread suppressed the total outbreak. Suicide bombing outside the humble who are more depressed and thread related. \
, can openly admit their weak position in a certain area. That is not a lost thing. In fact, the reason for the humble,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and he's often related to the environment, in an environment not his own, pursuing a goal is not his own, and finally get a tragic ending. Primary school textbooks in the \One can not openly deal with their own weak, strong, how can it?
Bruce Lee born with defects, he finally shows us the image of the representative that he recognized the image of their own shortcomings. Recognize the weak, is a raw open-minded attitude of wisdom.
Indeed, the ability to really have limits. The existence of talent is not the same, outstanding primary school,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in secondary schools will not have been good, has been leading has been the envy of everyone bar. Also such as the nature of the day, how could it always sunny? \I believe the day after tomorrow is too hard to change everything, too obsessed with lofty ideals, will inevitably fall into disillusionment unable to extricate themselves. Phase, admit that he is a small matter but probably because of the mentality of peace, the attitude of modesty would like to win a place between heaven and earth.
a matter of fact to understand their own and do not force the law of nature, the efforts of all pay, the situation, step back and natural grace that brighter future. What kind of enjoy it than enjoy a look at the raw Gengrang clear understanding of existence, the joy of living it?
timid and not really a bad thing.
timid and avoid unnecessary risk of injury.无知者无畏 can create miracles, but it is a miracle to life, body injury or expense. Li Wei Qiang under no gentleman, why? Because Weiqiang higher probability of following the accident.
in complex social relations, if bragging, audacious, and ultimately hurt by the society - heart damage, mental damage, and damage to the wealth and status . With these injuries, the added value of students also greatly reduced.
timid and not always a bad thing, given the intrinsic Timor are useful.
I gradually came to feel timid child is smart. The reason why the child timid, often because he knows too much danger in the world, are too weak on their own understanding. Thus creating a natural defense system. All while avoiding disadvantages, chemotaxis An instinct to avoid danger, the more intelligent the more know how to protect themselves. Cowardice is actually a self-defense, and retreat to safety. Security is to move forward. Foolhardy who is probably the bold display of criticism.
I think one should openly accept their own cowardice, and also the wisdom to understand the performance of timid.

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