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I am not a patient's mother


  Sunday, to check her work, but should not have found a lot of mistakes, which makes me surprised! To her daughter's learning situation, this should not happen.
  This year, I gave her enough space, no longer as before, see her every day, staring at the operation. I know that every day her view, she has been dependent on psychological, each, were hastily done, to me to find the error.
  secretly always felt that this continues not, therefore, to their child, hoping she do it again after the review itself, so that is conducive to her learning. I, just the occasional spot checks, to understand her situation.
  recently,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], neglected the children's learning. School every day, and she always said work done at school. I was secretly happy a lot of time, I always feel, big kids one day, and more sensible than before, aware of their homework on time, and this shows the child's awareness and enthusiasm has greatly improved. Thus, slack for a long time, I did not pumping accuracy of her work is like. But told her to have time to read more books, increase knowledge, broaden horizons, to the future of learning is helpful.
  today, suddenly remembered that a comprehensive check to help her up. To her daughter's academic performance, not the best, or can. Moreover, teachers are some of the basic layout of the title, to do such work should not be a wrong. However, contrary to my expectation, even the wrong number. If not, then it when the problem is caused by her careless ah.
  tell the truth, in the inspection, I have not mentally prepared for this. Thus, the daughter called to me loudly scolded her, why not careful, patient homework? Why do some low-level error every time? See my angry, daughter dared not speak, but the job of the Naqu revised up to her room.
  mathematics examination well, turn language and English. Exasperating, she was not even simple words were a mistake,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and English words are misspelled. An undetermined origin shocked Shangcuan from my heart,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I think, that moment, I must be the world's most ugly and most furious mother. Called her daughter, easily gave her a slap.
  daughter may not have thought I would beat her, did not react at once, and stopped half of the cheek, Jiangzainali, tears trickle trickle downwards. Through open fingers, I see kids half red face moment, watching the tears roll down from the top down, my heart suddenly a soft, There was a pain, can not remember how long it has not hit the child, and I This is how today it?
  wrong for our children, should be made so much fire? Worthy beat her? She, after all, a child, ah, she can hit completely corrected it? Why can not temper a little slower? Why can not a little more patience? Play,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], only increase the child's confusion, without benefit to solve the problem ah. My child's education, it is also a low-level errors committed Oh. I am in deep remorse into.
  There is a saying goes \Because of my severe headache the previous evening, and later improved by medication only, but now, kids can still remember it, ran ask me not, and held out her small hand touched my forehead. Moment, ashamed added guilt fills my whole heart, the face of innocent children, faces I did not say.
  Mother's Xin Tourou child is, in fact I am not willing to fight her too. Just to see her seriously and my bad temper is irrepressible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and playing with their children, but in my heart pain ah.
  afternoon, she asked her students to learn the car downstairs. Speaking of learning things the car,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I have no patience. Car a year ago bought it for her good, and may have been lying in the carport to sleep it.
  first I practiced with their children for two hours, but then she will not even the most basic actions, combined with timid, afraid or somersault, then subsequently disappeared, and I would not bother re-teach her. I always selfish that, waiting for her child and then larger, making learning more on easy they realize that patience is not my own teaching pretext.
  next door in our building is a closed government building, which has a great piece of open space, usually no one move, and no car, just right for the child learn to drive.
  at the window overlooking the side, a few students are being taught her. Faint to hear one of the girls riding in the careful teaching of the essentials daughter, daughter listened to seriously study the serious, although a start has some stupid A state, practicing for a while, however, I clearly felt the child's progress. Another period of time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], again, her daughter had been able to ride a short distance from the Independent.
  I laughed, for the child's progress.
  turn back, I have a very strong sense of guilt. As a mother, her daughter's problems in dealing with, I lack patience. As mothers, we should always pay attention to the children's growth, always concerned about the child's school. Rather than the violent beatings and false deal with Oh. Time to find their children, problems, and to guide, this is the key.
  remember every night, his daughter before bedtime,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], should pro-2 in my face, and then say \love the move, sometimes even that it's too troublesome. Children can not meet the requirements in the same time, also condemned two. The sound of my reproach, the children quietly to enter her dreams. In her mother's dream will occur yelled? In her dream will reproduce the mother to her surprise?
  at the moment, careful thinking, as a mother, I really did so wrong ah! I do, will hurt the child's self-esteem of my child innocent, and innocence of nature, it has been my life and life to kill.
  Over time, the child's physical and mental health is not helpful. I Haohao De reflect on themselves, I am not a patient's mother. Lack of patience for me, for my rude behavior, I feel blushed, feeling ashamed, feeling his own incompetence. Hope that from now on, self-correction, it should be not too late, right?

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