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Marriage of city of badge of _ of folk-custom amorous feelings
In ancient badge city, of a marriage facilitate, can divide intermediary to close roughly, order close, into the ceremony, close kiss 4 phase. Have 9 programs commonly: Act as a matchmaker, travel is hired, please period, move marry all right, face, greet close, do obeisance to hall, be troubled by bridal chamber, answer the door. Pass above phase and program, just be " formal wedding " . Have the special marriage form such as the child marriage, concubinage [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], marriage before changing close, marry into and live with wife's family, strong happy event, spirit additionally. The marriage of person of city of old times badge is consuetudinary, get the influence of feudal the Confucian or feudal ethical code, its are a lot of unnecessary and overelaborate formalities, many going to the element that contains superstition colour and mercenary marriage. Below we with respect to 9 programs from badge city marriage, will let everybody do one by one further understanding.
Act as a matchmaker: The Gu Li of old society, male full 18 years old are " weak coronal " , female full 15 years old are " reach " . Children arrived 934 years old, parents begins to care its marriage. Be matched for marriage of allied be particular about, actually every visit the woman make friends with a man of higher position, the man needs to be indulged appropriately however. Reason has " marry female beg high, small pool of take a wife " view. ; General by the meddlesome young married woman of home village or town, come-and-go go canvassing, artful character is matched, or by object of man make choice of, before entrusting woman matchmaker, go to talk about a marriage. If the woman agrees, woman matchmaker obtains red sheet of character 8 of woman the time of a person's birth to send the bridegroom's or husband's family, gentleman of kitchen of buy of man general character 8 below, have all without exception in order to measure auspicious. If the kitchen is not broken inside 3 days dish hit a bowl, do not be short of gourd ladle little chopsticks, think preliminary and auspicious. Again the men and women two birthday character 8 sends fortune-telling gentleman part, look to whether develop photograph gram, pass entirely, affirm without by accident ability is OK and formal bring two parties together of seek a marriage alliance.
Hire all right: Common says " next deciding " , " betrothal " , after both sides is affirmatory and allied, day of auspicious of make choice of, fall fully by the man red stick, call " book of gift of an affectionate couple " , inside the page is written on birthday character 8 of the man, load a red envelope, add write the article deciding case with an allied request, a new brush and a new Mo Fang enter a red skin " the small box that approve a book " , ask a this house man relative to take a small case that approve a book, go along with go-between the bride's side, common says " next calm books " . Ask to send according to the woman even at the same time " scolex ceremony " , if dress material, headgear, ceremony is silver-colored,wait. If the ceremony of Yi county is silver-colored during the Republic of China,custom is 108 silver dollar. How much do this also want to see domestic fortune nevertheless and differ, but mantissa is 8, the implied meaning " if want to send, do not leave 8 " meaning, and should use on every silver dollar vermilion write on double happiness word. After the woman gets, want by the parent (father and elder brothers) with its new writing is in book of gift of an affectionate couple inside page left writes down woman birthday character 8, write on cover next on " close allow big auspicious " , remand this is the man " approve a book " . The woman accepts the case gift below, use purchase dotal, plute often adds dowry oneself. Be formal betrothal so. Book of gift of an affectionate couple is engaged namely proof. After betrothal, the man all is gotten 3 times one year to give sb a present of the bride's side.
Please period: After be engaged, the men and women gets married, the man asks woman matchmaker to come to put forward to marry first request, after getting assenting, collect by the man anthology marry date, the book is written on Gong Jian, deserve to go up corresponding gift, ask go-between to send the bride's side. Call in ancient times " please period " . Contemporary cry " send a day " . Move marry all right: In what marry before today or that day, before the man needs to send a person, go to female move curtilage dotal, call " move marry all right " . Move during be being married all right, decorate with lanterns and streamers of residence of both sides of male and female, cry play music of prepare Chinese medicine by roasting it in a panbig gun. Dotal and general it is room furniture and every day object. Other people of riches and honour also is being done obeisance to headgear of on a few bullion is put to wait in small box, eat, wear, things course of study everything needed is ready, the opportunity can be enjoyed for lifetime. (some has even coffin even neat! ! ) .
Open a range: Say again " play a side " . In greet close that day, aunt or aunt should open a range to the bride, the fine hair on the human body that uses forehead of bride of target of two silk thread namely is wrung, should be laughed at to be otherwise " wool face " . Open a face to mean girl times to had ended.
Greet close: Get married be on duty for the day, marry a bride to want to use a bridal sedan chair, area of river of a few edge uses a boat. The member that receive a dear one is woman of go-between, happy event, uncle, uncle and the young men and women with similar of age of bridegroom, bride commonly. Carry litter person for 4 people, other people of riches and honour is 8 people. Bridegroom wants to be headed for personally commonly, inhaling county also has need not strains of music accompanied by drumbeats, do not want bridegroom to come to greet close. Arrived in woman home, woman gate lock, should wait for the man to fill in in a crack between a door and its frame sufficient " happy bag " hind, open an entrance door just now, cry prepare Chinese medicine by roasting it in a panbig gun greets a visitor. Begin next " cry marry " , mother and daughter signs up for head cry bitterly, cry is medium nevertheless more it is happy feel and not be sadness. Why to want to cry? It is allegedly " do not cry to be not sent, cry cry hair hair " . After the bridal sedan chair goes out, some places still contain a bowl of water secretly, spill as the bridal sedan chair that go out go out, indicative " marry those who go out is female, sprinkle the water that go out " . The bridal sedan chair arrived mouth of village of the bridegroom's or husband's family namely go no further not before, want to wait for bridegroom to carry a village on the back, the face has literary quotation again here, if marriage hind quarrels, daughter-in-law can claim " again myself is not on the door, it is you come in my back " .
Do obeisance to hall: Of inhaling county consuetudinary be, the bridal sedan chair comes male curtilage be born, bridegroom is greeted personally to hall hall, do obeisance to hall ceremony all right namely, of Yi county consuetudinary it is litter comes male curtilage gate, husband's father and mother, bridegroom goes upstairs, want to waited for a bride to enter bridal chamber, pass belt halloo at the same time " generation tall generation, generation gets the better of generation " . After the bride rests a little into bridal chamber, just come out to do obeisance to hall ceremony all right.
Be troubled by bridal chamber: Hua Zhu is convivial medicinal powder after banquet [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], kin good friend collects a bride to put in, everybody amuses bridal laugh with all sorts of different kind or be to give a few difficult problem to come embarrass they, with this make merry. Of the graph also is " fry hair " .
Answer the door: Newly-married the 3rd day, the bride answers a married woman's parents' home to visit, this is " answer the door " , if bridegroom companion sends, it is " double answer the door " , husband first time comes, should pay a formal visit one by one Yue Jiazhu kisses elder, yue Jia should drive banquet banquet husband midday, call receive husband. Badge city element has " mother-in-law sees son, be just as see an emperor " , and " son comes to live ancestor " publish a version. So very grand. Answer the door for the first time, differ the setting sun falls on the west [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], newlywed must say good-bye put in the home 's charge. Relevant Information：
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